Dear Warner Brother,
Welcome to our family, my darling boy. I am so happy you are finally here. After just over 40 weeks of pregnancy, just over an hour of labour, and just under two years beforehand wondering if we'd ever be ready, you have completed our family - a family that was previously miraculous, but not quite done.
Now we're done.
You've joined our family with unexpected seamlessness and fulfilled a gap that we knew was there but didn't know if we had the strength to fill.
Before you arrived, I couldn't quite imagine what you would be like. To begin with, we could not for the life of us find a name that suited you. We had 35 names that may have been acceptable but none that were exactly right.
Although this time I was able to picture what having a child would be like, I wasn't exactly able to picture you. In my mind you were maybe a girl (even after we knew you weren't) and you didn't have a face, let alone a personality. You were a mirage, sitting on the floor in my mind's eye, playing with blocks - but you weren't yet a real person. I think I knew you would be completely different from Fraggle, but I didn't know in which ways. Honestly, my darling, you felt a little like a stranger coming to live with us.
Until the day you were born.
On the day you were born, I truly loved you. I began to feel that well of emotion that is "supposed" to come with a new baby (which I don't think the panic of newborndom permitted the first time). You had a face, you had a voice, you had a tiny little hand that waved at me. You were ours, and I was so... grateful to have you.
Within one day, we got to know you. You had a name and a definitive personality. You became real.
Like your dad, you furrow your brow. And like your mama, you cry when something isn't right - but I can usually tell what the un-right thing is. You don't scream, not anymore (although you do have a strong dislike for cold diaper wipes). You can always be calmed when we hum near the top of your head. You don't crunch up your hands or grasp our fingers with that normal newborn grip, you prefer to stretch and wave. You already love your big sister - you never cringe at her toddler screams and you always let her hug and kiss you. You have a very strong head and neck that leads us to believe you'll actually like tummy time and that you'll crawl before you walk. You don't like to be bounced, you'd rather lay still, dangling weightless in our arms. You want to be nestled, you want to be hugged. If you could choose, you'd breastfeed all the time. You would stay cuddled there for hours if I let you, and you're growing like a prized pumpkin because of it. You make contented wimper sounds when you're feeding that make me believe I can keep you warm and safe in my arms forever.
I can't wait to nestle you for the rest of my life; to protect you from anything that makes you unhappy; to support you, wrap you up, calm you, and keep you tucked in my arms for as long as you'll let me. I love you my baby boy. Welcome home.